Make me a sandwich!

[Ry]

Ryan, I haven't finished reading this thread - but I have to say you ARE WRONG ABOUT THIS!!

And to use the computer lingo of the day, let me say this again ...

You are wrong IMHO

No I'm not. It's a fact men want sex more. That's in general. That's common sense and according to every study ever done about it. It's not even comparable. I had a special course in psychology just about sex. And in all test from the 40s to now in any country where its been done the results are the same. A woman on the drug ecstasy still has less of a sex drive chemically than a man has naturally when he wakes up in the morning. A Women's sex drive is mostly in her mind, it's psychological. A man's is both that and physical. It's the same reason in general men are more violent than women. Of that there is no question. Sure some individual women kill their kids and do terrible things but on the whole, they can't hold a candle to violent crimes/wars by men or even healthy violence. The brain in males is geared towards sex and violence many many times more than a woman's. That's not an opinion its a scientific fact.

Just say well I bla bla or this one girl I know. blablabla doesn't cut it. A women who wants to fuck every one or who does fuck everyone is called a whore. A man that acts that way is called nothing because it's normal.

Most guys cum every day from the time they are 15 or less to 60 or 70s or whenever its no longer physically possible. It's just like drinking water or eating food or sleeping.

[Apricot]

A women who wants to fuck every one or who does fuck everyone is called a whore. A man that acts that way is called nothing because it's normal.

This bullshit attitude and stereotype is one reason women suppress their natural sexuality. I certainly don't advocate sleeping with 'everyone' but a man who does so is equally as much a 'whore' a women who does it. I'm not claiming men and women are the same, they aren't but that value judgement is bullshit, I'm surprised you've perpetuated it.

[Whirled Peas]

No I'm not. It's a fact men want sex more. That's in general. That's common sense and according to every study ever done about it. It's not even comparable. I had a special course in psychology just about sex. And in all test from the 40s to now in any country where its been done the results are the same. A woman on the drug ecstasy still has less of a sex drive chemically than a man has naturally when he wakes up in the morning. A Women's sex drive is mostly in her mind, it's psychological. A man's is both that and physical. It's the same reason in general men are more violent than women. Of that there is no question. Sure some individual women kill their kids and do terrible things but on the whole, they can't hold a candle to violent crimes/wars by men or even healthy violence. The brain in males is geared towards sex and violence many many times more than a woman's. That's not an opinion its a scientific fact.

Again more bullshit. Coming from a few text books you read on the subject or learned in school. Lets agree to disagree on this one. I'm speaking as a female with female friends and all of us are in relationships. No I don't speak from textbooks, I speak from actual real life situations and Apricot is right in saying:

A women who wants to fuck every one or who does fuck everyone is called a whore. A man that acts that way is called nothing because it's normal.

This bullshit attitude and stereotype is one reason women suppress their natural sexuality. I certainly don't advocate sleeping with 'everyone' but a man who does so is equally as much a 'whore' a women who does it. I'm not claiming men and women are the same, they aren't but that value judgement is bullshit, I'm surprised you've perpetuated it.

That value judgement is absolute bullshit.

And women can be just as CRUEL as men. If not more cruel. No, not physically violent, as some of us are just not big enough to kick your fucking asses but it has been proven, and yes scientifically, that we can be just as cruel if not more cruel, the eye rolls, the words we use, the inflection in our tones of voice, the body language, and more. Men know how to fight and fuck, of that I will agree. Women know how to fight without physically abusing anyone, fuck - better than anyone, AND bring a man to his knees. Of that, if you don't agree, I don't even want to know.

You, Ryan Dawson, and I, in a room would have much to talk about - not all of it good - but in the end, we would find that we would agree on everything political and nothing regarding human behaviours between the sexes.

[Phys]

Agreed ladies

Thursday night, so you know that means I’m guarantee to have my nipples sucked etc, etc..… good times. Have a great weekend!

[Whirled Peas]

Agreed ladies

Thursday night, so you know that means I’m guarantee to have my nipples sucked etc, etc..… good times. Have a great weekend!

Have fun !!!

[Apricot]

Agreed ladies

Thursday night, so you know that means I’m guarantee to have my nipples sucked etc, etc..… good times. Have a great weekend!

Sounds yummy

[exquisite]

i do believe men tend to be more violent, but when it comes to arguments women win hands down, i've always wondered why hurtful comments feel so bad, i read a book by a harvard psychologist who said that when someone says something really mean that upsets us our bodies produce the same physical reaction as if we are physically attacked (minus the bruises, cuts, etc), makes sense because the emotional reaction is just as bad, sometimes even worse.

As for men wanting more sex, ry is right, even if a woman wants more sex psychologically how much extra can she manage physically without lubricant?

[Ry]

dude anyone saying that has never been seriously attacked physically. I just had my disc compressed between c6 and 7 there is nothing anyone has ever said or called me to hurt like that. Ever had a serious burn? Or had part of your eye torn open, popped and ear drum, ripped your ACL etc words just can not hurt like real physical injuries. I think women who get hurt by people saying nasty things hold that up as high as they do because they rarely feel anything worse (until they have kids, and then they agree physical is worse than name calling. If they skipped the epidural) So to them its the worst thing ever. And men want sex more than women that's commonsense. Boys want to see girls naked form the time they can talk.

Look at the porn industry its nearly entirely aimed at men. And its not just visual. Its all of it. Hookers whatever. A guy no matter who he is will throw away his lifetime career for some booty. Women just aren't doing that shit. 1 they don't need to because they can get fucked whenever they want and 2 they don't need to because they aren't as driven to it, that's WHY they can get it whenever they want because so many men will screw just about anyone who isn't butt ugly.

[exquisite]

the psychologist was daniel goleman, i didn't explain his point very well, "physical injuries" like stress related illnesses are long term consequences and short term ones produce the same chemicle reaction as getting hit (but not beaten up badly).

to take an extreme example, my psycho mum has always been a superbitch, but last year she was involved in a very, very nasty plot to have me and my dad killed (very long and nasty story, where we both suffered a lot , will not explain it here) now whenever me and my dad hear about the shocking lies she is telling we we feel physically sick, sometimes its so debilitating i can't move.

as for childbirth, i didn't use any form of pain relief and hardly felt the labour, every woman is different, mean comments from the old school/work bully are far more painful imho, as for mums nasty comments.... well they're in a leauge of thier own.

[Phys]

Both men and women have a psychological urge and a physical urge to have sex. Women’s physical urges tend occur after she starts menstruating which is about 12 to 13yrs old. It’s the same way your cat goes into heat. Not sure if you have ever seen an animal in heat but their pretty demanding about what they need and it isn’t long walks on the beach. Most girls 12 and 13 aren’t having sex but the desire is there so of course girls masturbate just like boys do. Girls grow up in a culture that makes it not “ok” to want sex another example of a male dominated world. Men, in general, have a hard time dealing/understanding women’s sexuality as you do Ry. Of course the porn industry is geared toward men it’s been run by men for many years. That’s changing though. Men (or the male form)is also starting to be exploited in the marketing world too. You are seeing women openly expressing their wants in bed from “personal massagers” commercial to full on infomercials about dildos, vibrators and lubricants.

Sex feels good. It feels good to women and men. Women also risk a lot for sex it’s just women tend to not get caught nearly as much as men do. Women have a great memory and cover their tracks well. If a man finds out about his wife, it’s because his wife has told him or she wanted to be caught. Men can't remember birthdays or little details like what he was wearing when he said such and such; much less manage tomcatting around town.